Standards & safety
Care is part of the edit.
She Dates Well is for adults 18+. We publish educational dating and relationship material; we do not provide matchmaking, profiles, private messaging, identity verification, or emergency services.
Meeting safely
For early meetings, consider a public place, independent transport, a clear end time, and a trusted person who knows your plan. Protect personal details until trust is earned. Never send money or sensitive financial information to someone you know only through dating channels.
Consent and pressure
Consent must be freely given, specific, informed, and reversible. Repeatedly asking after a “no,” using guilt, threatening consequences, or ignoring intoxication are forms of pressure. You can leave any interaction that does not feel safe.
Editorial boundaries
We do not publish doxxing, harassment, targeted accusations, non-consensual intimate material, or instructions that enable abuse. We avoid diagnosing strangers and do not frame controlling behavior as romance.
Community conduct
Future community features will prohibit hate speech, impersonation, scams, threats, spam, privacy violations, exploitation of minors, and unwanted sexual remarks. Material may be reviewed, rejected, restricted, or removed under our community guidelines.
Urgent situations
If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. If you are experiencing stalking, sexual violence, domestic abuse, or coercion, a trusted local support organization can help you consider options suited to your location.